You cannot win love back by stalking your ex or sending some gifts and flowers. How sweet of you of course but it just never works that way. You need to be smart and prudent in your judgment.Do not let love replace your common sense by allowing how you feel about someone impair your ability to see that person for what they truly are. Below are some tips on how to win your lost love back with common sense:
- Do not try to change your partner
Do not try so hard to change your partner’s character or personality in any way. Let them be who they are. It is a more natural version of themselves. You should also not let your partner try to change you into someone you are not. Everybody wishes to find a partner of certain qualities, but no one is perfect, common sense should tell you that so you can never find a person of your desired qualities exclusively, they will always have ups and downs. Embrace them for what they really are.
- Do not depend on your partner to meet all your needs
Your partner should not be your source of income. You are his partner, not his project or your sole financial responsibility. If you need to win your love back, try to be more depended on yourself than your partner. You might have been dumped maybe because you were straining your partner financially and he or she could not handle your financial demands. Once you work on this, things will work out just fine.
- Win his or her heart back
Trust is like glass, once broken, it is hard to put together the broken pieces. Your partner may want to break up with you maybe because he or she is feeling neglected, ignored or taken for granted. The worst part about this is that you will fall apart and it is definitely the heart which suffers the most. Finding true love is never easy, you may be deeply in love with someone but you are not sure if that person feels the same way about you. When you win the heart of someone, you become sure about how they truly feel about you. It is a good feeling when you know you have someone’s heart.
- Do a self-reflection
After breaking up, you will obviously be upset, heartbroken or just feeling empty. It is normal. You need to take your time and figure out what you really want and if it is good for you or not. Do you love your partner and do you want to continue this affair or not. Do not go back begging your partner just because you feel lonely or broken inside, you will just look desperate. Take ample time to work on yourself before doing something that you might end up regretting later.